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Decorate Your Bedroom for Romance
by Pat Bowlin
Want to spice up your bedroom to let some romance in?
Decorating your bedroom for romance doesn't even have to be difficult or expensive. You can really let your creativity run wild here.
The most important thing to keep in mind is that you want to soothe all of the senses to both take away other distractions and relax completely. This should be your oasis, your refuge to reconnect and enjoy your partner's company.
A great place to start is lighting. Get rid of the glare, and you're well on the way to more romance!
Candles, candles and more candles can bring a lot of romance into the bedroom for a pretty small investment. Candles, both large and small, tapered, pillar or votives all generate a warm, inviting, flickering light to the room. Group them together in several areas of the room for the best effect.
Adding a dimmer switch to lighting can also be quite effective in designing bedrooms for romance--and cost very little as long as you can install it yourself. It isn't as difficult as you might think!
Placing mirrors to reflect your softened light will add more depth to your bedroom.
Window dressings that are plush and appealing should darken the room and prevent lights from traffic or other external noise from interrupting the romantic mood you are creating. The window treatment can match or contrast the bedding and often can be found as an accessory to the bedding set you select. Draperies that billow and flow can add a touch of romance to the bedroom as well.
The bed, of course, is the focal point of the bedroom in most cases, and the bedding you select for romance can set just the perfect mood.
Many people think of silk and satin when thinking of romantic bedding. Both silk and satin can be costly and a bit slippery on the bed. The good news is that the same luxurious effect and feel can be created with 100% cotton sateen sheets if you don't want the added expense of genuine satin or silk linens.
Choose bedding for your romantic bedroom that centers on relaxing, romantic colors. Avoid using too much grey, yellow or pink. Red, black, white, blue and green is very popular. Newer colors like pearl, bronze and even gold can really create the feeling of luxury and are quite romantic.
Remember that all of your senses should be involved for the perfect touch of romance--so adding interesting texture for bedding can be another opportunity to bring out romance. Velvet, faux fur and velour are rich, soft to the touch fabrics that can be used for comforters, blankets and throw pillows.
Peacock Alley is one of the most well-known luxury bedding makers.
They offer an especially warm, romantic bed linen set called the Marrakech Ebony. It features shades of green, gold and ebony in prints reminiscent of the African plains and looks especially romantic when highlighted by candlelight. 55% linen and 45% rayon create luxurious sheets which are easy to care for.
The Vienna Ensemble from Peacock Alley is 100% Egyptian cotton in white on white featuring eyelet lace. Euro sham, coverlet, boudoir pillows add wonderful interesting detail to the bedding which brings back the romantic 1800s.
And if you'd prefer to keep your expenses down abit, then you could go for the shabby chic approach, which means focusing on your own sense of style, mixing just about any romantic touches into the bedroom- as long as the overall result is soothing and relaxing. You don't have to follow anyone else's idea of romance. Just be creative!
If you really want to go all out, you could add a canopy to your bed. You can easily create the same effect of a canopy bed with about 10 yards of material like linen, silk or satin and four hooks placed in the ceiling. Simply drape the cloth so that it billows and flows to just above the bed linens. This touch will enhance any spacious bedroom and can provide a bedroom with low ceilings a more spacious feel.
Finish your new romantic bedroom with abit of soft music, maybe some potpourri and some fine chocolates and champagne, and there you have it!
You can live in a bedroom that surrounds you with romance every night if you wish. Simply bring together your own creation of romantic touches and enjoy.
About the author:
Patricia Bowlin is a successful author who loves to share hundreds of useful tips and advice galore on how to pick all the best of your family's bedding. Comforters, blankets, pillows, bed linen, and more! Visit now http://www.best-in-bedding.com.
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"I have been with my boyfriend eight years. He is Puerto Rican and I am African American, which his parents do not like. As a couple we are extremely happy, but they believe we should not date because we are different races, no matter how happy we make each other.
They also say they are looking out for our children's future because they will be viewed in a negative light if they are biracial. We have tried to be apart, but come right back to each other because we truly love one another.
I sat down with his parents only once, during which they told me they do not have a problem with the fact I am black. But behind my back they say the exact opposite. However, his brother, cousins and friends' parents think we are good together and don't understand why they reject me.
My boyfriend is afraid to go against his parents, yet he does not want to lose me and our relationship. Though he is slowly taking charge of his finances, he still depends on his parents financially, and I think that is why he is so afraid to go against them.
I have never said a negative thing about his parents and would love to show them I am a good person. I am so lost. We want to be together, but his parents are holding him and us back."
Wayne & Tamara's Answer:
"Deondra, you ask, "What can I do to show them I'm a good person?" That's not their question. Their question is, "Why is she right for our son?"
What you are trying to do is coax them into changing what they have imagined happening for their son since he was an infant. It's like trying to coax them into changing their religion.
It's as if your boyfriend has one foot in each of two political parties. He goes to meetings for both and thinks he supports both. But today is election day. He can't vote for both. He has to decide.
You could give him an ultimatum, but typically ultimatums don't work. Once a woman gives a man an ultimatum she knows in her heart love is lost.
But there is one reason to give him that ultimatum. It may be the only thing you can do in order to get loose of this relationship. Many a woman has lost her future waiting for something that never happens.
There is a rhythm to love, a pattern. Relationships don't go on and on stuck in one spot. Love conquers that. A man who loves a woman would not risk her needing to threaten him. A man who truly loved you would not put you in that position.
What is an ultimatum anyway? A woman begging a man to make her a wife."